By Michael Bartlett
RICHMOND, MO. — Albert “Randy” Peckham passed away on November 30, at the age of 85. He was born on October 19, 1939, in Grant, Mich., and lived a life defined by music, art, scholarship and love. Randy earned his bachelor of music degree from Western Michigan University in Kalamazoo, embarking on a distinguished career as a music educator in Michigan and Connecticut. His passion for music remained a guiding force throughout his life, resonating in every note he played on his cherished Mason and Hamlin Ampico, Steinway Duo-Art and his custom John Challice harpsichord.
Randy’s intellectual curiosity extended beyond music. After earning his master of science degree from Western Connecticut State University in Danbury, he became captivated by early American furniture and decorative arts. As a passionate collector and scholar, he forged connections with prominent dealers, collectors and curators, deepening his expertise through frequent trips across New England.
After 20 years in education, Randy pursued his entrepreneurial spirit, moved to Missouri opening the highly regarded A.R. Peckham Antiques in Kansas City. Through his work, he became a respected figure in the antiques world, sharing his knowledge as a guest lecturer at the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art and William Jewell College. Randy also served as chairman of the Mid-Missouri Antique Dealers Association and organized lectures for the Missouri Antique Dealers Association. His expertise brought him to prestigious antique shows nationwide, including Hartford and Los Angeles.
In mid-1990, Randy joined Butterfield & Butterfield Fine Arts Auctioneers as a furniture and decorative arts specialist. His discerning eye and affable nature made him a sought-after appraiser, leading to appearances on the Antiques Roadshow and HGTV’s Appraise It!
Randy’s personal life was as rich as his professional one. He met his lifelong partner, Garry Westher, on July 19, 1963. Together, they shared a remarkable 57 years filled with love, adventure, and shared passions. They celebrated their 50th anniversary in 2013 with friends at their beloved home, Hillcrest, a stunning Greek Revival antebellum property they restored and cherished for over 45 years. On July 17, 2015, they were finally able to marry legally in Santa Fe, N.M., a testament to their enduring bond. They shared a love of fine automobiles as well, being members of the Rolls Royce Owners Club.
The couple shared a love of travel and music, particularly their involvement with the American Theatre Organ Society. They explored the country, visiting pipe organs, friends, and family from Florida to California. Garry’s passing on January 26, 2020, marked a profound loss for Randy, though his memories of their life together remained a source of strength and joy.
Randy is predeceased by his brother, Charles Peckham, and survived by Charles’s wife, Grace; his sisters, Phyllis Wright and Marlene “Molly” Califf; as well as numerous nieces and nephews.
Randy will be remembered for his radiant smile, his unmistakable laugh, and his knack for storytelling. He was a connoisseur of life’s finer things — his home, wine, antiques, 1950 Rolls-Royce Silver Wraith Limousine as well as his 1980 Rolls-Royce Silver Spur and music — but above all, he cherished his relationships. His warmth and generosity fostered lifelong friendships, which he tended to with care and love throughout his 85 remarkable years.
Randy’s legacy is one of beauty, passion and connection. He will be deeply missed by the countless friends and loved ones whose lives he touched.
Those interested in making a gift to Poplar Forest in memory of Randy can send donations to Thomas Jefferson’s Poplar Forest, P.O. Box 419, Forest, VA, 24551, or give online at www.poplarforest.org.
